Thursday, July 24, 2008

Small Town Gay Bar




You have to rent this great, award-winning documentary (Or buy it). We watched it last night courtesy of Netflix. Maybe it resonates more with us gay folks who come from the Bible Belt and small-town America, but even city slickers will get into it. You think it's brave to be out of the closet in a big city? These rural gays from Mississippi are really the brave ones.

The documentary depicts several small-town bars and the lives of their patrons. One bar -- the Crossroads -- seemed like a wild, dangerous, and almost other-worldly wonderland snuggled away in the woods.

Now that Jesse Helms has thankfully departed this Earth, the Reverend Fred Phelps takes his place as psycho-gay hater du jour. At least no one's electing Phelps to public office...yet.

Don't forget the bonus features. You're treated to the film's producer Kevin Smith (my new hero) explaining why he's not really a bi-curious bear (Mmm hmmm) and what he would do if he were allowed a one-time pass at being gay without being labeled. Look for Kevin on your next trip to the Faultline, my bear mates. Oh, and the film's director is an uber-bear. I could feel my "husband's" temperature rise when he came on the screen.

Enjoy.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

My Little Brother Marries His Husband


Just before the holiday my little brother married his "husband" of 17 years, enabling him to remove the quotation marks when he calls him his husband.

San Francisco City Hall made the perfect spot for this. First of all, it's beautiful. And also the history of that place resonates when you're inside. A sculpture of Harvey Milk looked on as they said their vows. Now, someday maybe my "husband" and I can remove our quotation marks there. That would make me happy.